To be honest, at my age (just turned 42), my physical functions really aren't what they were in my early twenties. With high work stress, frequent late nights, and a lack of regular exercise, I often feel a bit "inadequate" when being intimate with my wife. I'm not talking about an inability to get hard, but rather finishing too quickly. Every time I see that she's still wanting more, it really doesn't feel good. To address this, I've researched quite a few methods and bought many so-called "topical endurance sprays." The one I recently got, Shibui Imported Men's Delay Spray 30ml, Long-lasting, Non-Numbing, Oral Safe, Comes with Travel Condoms & Topical Endurance Spray, I've been using on and off for over half a month. Today, I want to share my honest feelings with you all, no hype, no bashing—I'll be straightforward about both the pros and cons.
Why Did I Choose This One?
There are countless sprays like this on the market. I used to buy cheap ones from the pharmacy for a few dozen bucks, but after spraying, I felt completely numb, like I'd been given anesthesia. There was no sensation at all, just going through the motions with zero pleasure. This time, I chose Shibui mainly because it claims to be "non-numbing" and "oral safe." After all, at this age, I'm more focused on enhancing the quality of the experience, not just the duration. Plus, this 30ml large capacity offers decent value for money, and it comes with travel-sized condoms, which is convenient for business trips.
First Use: A Near "Mishap"
The first time I used it was on a Friday night. Following the instructions, about 20 minutes before the anticipated start, I sprayed once on each side of the coronal sulcus. I was in a hurry and didn't check the position carefully, so a bit of liquid touched the urethral opening. The sensation was... intense. It caused a mild stinging pain that lasted about 3 minutes. That's the first downside I discovered: The spray requires practice for precision; otherwise, it can be irritating.
About 15 minutes after spraying, I felt a slight warming sensation locally, but not the burning pain I'd experienced before. About 30 minutes later, when we started, honestly, for the first 10 minutes, I was worried it would go numb like before. But I found my sensitivity was still there, which was a pleasant surprise. That session lasted about 25 minutes, nearly double my usual time. My wife later asked if I'd been secretly working out. I felt a smug satisfaction inside but didn't let on.
I had previously read an article titled Louis 16 Endurance Spray vs. Oral Energy Supplements: Are You Extending Love Time or Numbing Your Soul?, which discussed the difference between sprays and oral supplements. I feel that this Shibui product truly achieves the "no anesthesia" level.
Second Use: Mastering the "Rhythm"
With the first experience under my belt, I was smarter the second time. After showering and drying off, I sprayed about 40 minutes in advance. This time, I avoided the urethral opening and gently massaged it in after spraying to aid absorption. I found that this product's onset time is actually a bit longer than the official claim. If you only wait 20 minutes, the effect might only be about 50%.
Around the 45-minute mark, the sensation was most noticeable. This time, I didn't use a condom (even though it came with one) to test its oral safety. Although it's labeled "oral safe," I still had some psychological reservations. My wife didn't notice any strange odor, just mentioned a slight bitterness. That's the second downside: Although it claims to be odorless, upon closer inspection, there's a faint chemical or herbal scent, not completely like pure water.
That performance was very stable, lasting about 40 minutes, and I ended it by actively controlling the pace. This sense of control is truly a man's deepest dignity. Speaking of which, I also recalled another article, After Using German Black Diamond Endurance Liquid, I Realized a Man's Deepest Dignity Is Never About Showing Off for a Few Minutes. The psychological boost from such topical products is incredibly important.
Side-by-Side Comparison: Topical vs. Oral
To give you a clearer picture of where this product stands, I've compared it with some other popular products I've tried. After all, everyone's needs are different—some prefer sprays, others prefer pills.
| Product Name | Type | Onset Time | Sustained Sensation | Pros | Cons |
| :--- | :--- | :--- | :--- | :--- | :--- |
| Shibui Delay Spray | Topical Liquid | 30-40 minutes | Natural, Non-numbing | High safety, Oral safe | Requires advance prep, Slight bitter taste |
| Cialis Super Tadarise | Oral Tablet | 1-2 hours | Very strong, Boosts erection + delay | Long effect (24h+) | Possible headache, facial flushing side effects |
| German Black Ant Tablets | Energy Supplement | ~1 hour | Increased stamina | Natural ingredients, Kidney tonic | Delay effect varies by person |
| Japanese Fujita Men's Fast-Acting Health Supplement | Fast-acting Care | 40-60 minutes | Strong explosive power | Noticeable hardness improvement | Expensive for long-term use |
As the table shows, if you're acting on a whim or don't want medication entering your bloodstream, a topical endurance spray like Shibui is the top choice. But if you're after that "always ready" combat capability, oral options like Cialis Super Tadarise (Men's Endurance) are more convenient, without needing to time the spray application.
"Veteran's" Guide to the Principle and Ingredients
I specifically looked into it. The principle behind Shibui's spray is mainly to reduce the sensitivity of the penile nerve endings using plant extracts (like clove, cistanche, etc.), rather than strong anesthetics used in cheap products. That's why it can achieve "delay without numbness."
If you usually feel physically drained, relying solely on spray isn't enough. I recommend pairing it with some energy supplements, like German Black Ant Tablets, Viagra 24-Pack Box, Men's Vitality Energy Supplement, Gift for Self or Others, for better results through internal and external care. Or products like Japanese Fujita Men's Fast-Acting Health Supplement, Japanese Tengsu Energy Supplement, Must-Have for Men, which can significantly improve overall hardness and endurance.
Summary: My Guide to Avoiding Pitfalls
After using it for half a month, I've summarized a few tips that I hope will help my fellow men:
1. Allow Enough Lead Time: The official recommendation is 20 minutes, but I suggest spraying at least 30-40 minutes in advance. After spraying, put on your underwear and watch TV in the living room for a bit. Let it fully absorb for a stable effect.
2. Control the Dosage: For the first time, only spray 1-2 times. Spraying more might extend the time, but it could also make it difficult to finish, which is also uncomfortable.
3. Rinsing Issue: Although it's oral safe, if you don't want your partner to know, rinsing with water 20 minutes after spraying won't diminish the effect, as the ingredients have already been absorbed.
Who Is It Suitable For?
Who Is It Not Suitable For?
Overall, this Shibui spray is worth its price, especially the 30ml large capacity that lasts a long time. It's not a magic pill that instantly turns you into a "war god," but it can definitely help you regain confidence at crucial moments and enjoy that long-lost sense of control. Men, it's not shameful to treat yourself well.